The world around YOU is a reflection, it is simply a mirror showing you the person you are.
To change your world, you must change yourself. To blame and complain will only restrict your actions and in return make matters worse. Whatever you care about, is your responsibility alone.
What you see in others, shows you yourself. When you choose to see the best in others, you will be your best. Give to others, and you give to yourself. Appreciate beauty, and you will be beautiful. Have admiration for creativity, and you will be creative. Love, and you will be loved. Seek to understand, and you will in return be understood.
When searching for the good in others, YOU will find goodness in YOURSELF. The faults you find in others, are your faults as well. After all, to recognize something you must know it. This is the very reason truth is so powerful for example ➡️ when you call someone angry and they respond negatively it is because they recognized that emotion within themselves. If they ceased to respond they are not guilty of that truth, nor do they recognize it in themselves = No offense taken from projection. ☀️
The possibilities you see in others, are possible for you as well. The beauty you see around you, is your beauty.
Listen, and YOUR voice will be heard. Teach, and you will learn. Show your best face to the mirror, and you'll be happy with the face looking back at you. Once you realize this there should be no problem with finding your balance.